According to Tae-jung (Kang Ha-neul), the most hopeless phrase that Koreans say is “next time.” As he grew older and away from his childhood friends, he found himself saying “next time” more often without really thinking about it. But of course, the thing about life is that you always assume there’ll be a “next time”, but that might not necessarily be the case. Perhaps right now is a “last time” and you don’t even know it. The sometime narrator of The First Ride (퍼스트 라이드) tells us right away that this is a”sad story,” but it’s also happy a one about the enduring power of friendship even if you might not be all that close any more.
Tae-jung, Yeon-min (Cha Eun-woo), Do-jin (Kim Young-kwang), and Geum-bok (Kang Young-seok) have been friends since they were six years old, but Yeon-min is moving to New Zealand with his family right after he graduates high school. To mark the occasion, the boys decide to go on a trip and pick Thailand for their destination because Yeon-min’s favourite DJ is going to be playing at a festival. After managing to convince their parents, they finally set off only to be frustrated by an unexpected development that prevents them from travelling. Ten years later, Do-jin has been having a hard time, spending the intervening years in and out of pyshciatric hospital. He nevertheless wants to recreate their teenage trip as soon-to-be 30-year olds. As Yeon-min is unable to come, he decides to take him along with them in the form of a life-size pillow with his face on it, which proves very confusing for the good people of Thailand.
It’s clear that each of the young men has had various struggles in the intervening years. Geum-bok became a tattooist and is still in flight from his mother’s determination that he follow in her footsteps by becoming a Buddhist monk. He ends up going on holiday with his head shaved and wearing monks’ robes hoping for one last hurrah. Tae-jung, meanwhile, is on the way to achieving his dream of becoming president by working as a secretary to an assemblyman who is currently on hunger strike to protest some kind of injustice. Tae-jung’s pure-heated belief in political integrity becomes something of a thorn in the side of his boss who, is of course, not really going so far as to refuse all food, so he’s only too happy to let him go on a once-in-a-lifetime male bonding trip. Tae-jung is also followed by Ok-sim (Han Sun-hwa), who sees herself as his girlfriend, while he seems to be indifferent to her partly because of his own unresolved trauma and fear of making new relationships. But Do-jin who has suffered the most, unable to get over Yeon-min’s absence and looked after Tae-jung and Geum-bok while he struggles with mental health issues including hallucinations and delusions.
Nevertheless, their time in Thailand is mainly spent on goofy fun which more than once gets them sent to the local jail only to be rescued by an exasperated embassy official (Yoon Kyung-ho) who tries to persuade them to go home early or at least pretend not to be Korean. A baffling plot development in which the gang are kidnapped for illegal organ transplant takes the film in a darker direction though is still mostly played for laughs and acting as a mild caution about the dangers of travel, and most particularly of people who seem nice but might have ulterior motives. It’s only Ok-sim’s messiness that saves the day in the end even if she begins to become slightly fed up with Tae-jung’s continued insensitivity towards her in flirting with other women during their trip.
But even so, through their shared experiences, the three men begin to overcome some of their shared trauma while reaffirming their friendship. Do-jin comes to accept the truth and is able to begin living a more settled life thanks to the support of his friends in processing his guilt and grief. Though they may not be so close any more, the memory of their childhood friendship becomes a sustaining force for each of them, while they try to maintain their relationship as adults with busy lives. They are, however, much better equipped to that after their strange trip to Thailand despite its continuing absurdity.
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Windows on Worlds 